Femcare Gift for Your Partner | Self-Care You Choose Together
A gift for your partner
For you who caresabout your partner's body.
Transform your loving care into self-care that you can choose together.
Periods, fertility, postpartum, menopause, sexual wellness. Rather than finding immediate answers, start by listening to your partner. We introduce self-care items that can be a catalyst for discussion and selection between the two of you.
Start with a conversation
When you're unsure how to offer support.
You want to help, but because it concerns the body, you might not know if you should choose something alone. You might also be unsure how to start the conversation. In such cases, why not begin by simply looking together and saying, "There are options like these, what do you think?"
Choose by purpose
Choose according to your partner's current needs.
Rather than guessing their concerns, choose based on what your partner is interested in or themes you both want to address.
Making fertility a shared journey
To share the time you spend thinking about fertility together. We introduce options for you both to consider, such as items to track ovulation and self-checks to assess sperm health.
View fertility items → 02 / Period CareMaking period days a little more comfortable
For absorbent underwear and menstrual cups, size and your partner's experience are important. We recommend choosing together with your partner rather than making a surprise decision.
View period care → 03 / Sexual WellnessConsidering both your comfort
For when you want to reduce dryness, friction, or discomfort during penetration. For when you want to spend your time together more safely and comfortably. We introduce products you can choose while discussing your preferences, without making it one person's problem.
View sexual wellness → 04 / Pelvic Floor CareFor urinary leakage and pelvic floor muscle care
For changes due to postpartum or age, or light urinary leakage during sneezing or exercise. Because it's a very personal concern, choose together with your partner after listening to what they're concerned about.
View pelvic floor care → 05 / Menopause CareSupporting them through a time of change
Menopause can bring various changes such as sleep disturbances, mood swings, dryness, and hot flashes. Choose based on the changes and preferences your partner is actually experiencing, not just their age.
View menopause care → 06 / Daily Self-careGift daily self-care
We introduce care items that are easy to incorporate into daily life, such as cleansers, oils, and mists. Since preferences for scent and feel vary, it's safest to choose after checking with your partner.
View intimate care →How to choose
What's important before giving a gift.
Because these products concern the body and sexuality, it's important to respect your partner's feelings and choices rather than making it a surprise.
First, listen
Don't try to solve things immediately. Ask, "Is there anything you're struggling with?" and listen to whatever they're comfortable sharing.
Browse pages together
Instead of deciding on a product alone, share options and ask, "There are choices like these, what do you think?"
Confirm size and preference
For underwear, menstrual cups, scented products, and items for direct bodily use, it's safer to choose while listening to your partner's preferences.
Don't demand use
Even after gifting, whether and when to use it is your partner's choice. Respect their pace.
Words to start with
Before giving a gift, try these words.
There's no need to force out detailed information or have all the right answers. Simply expressing your concern and desire to think together is enough.
- Have you been feeling burdened by anything related to your body recently?
- Is there anything we can do together?
- If there's anything you're interested in, would you like to take a look together?
- It's okay if you don't use it.
Gift & bundle sets
Turn your loving care into a gift you can choose together.
Not just for birthdays or anniversaries, but also when you start trying to conceive, discuss period or postpartum burdens, or simply want to cherish your partner's body.
- Themed sets for when you're not sure where to start
- Combinations that you can review with your partner
- Choose by themes such as periods, pelvic floor, and self-care
- Review the contents with your partner before purchasing
Curated by fermata
We select femtech and femcare products from around the world that are easy to incorporate into daily life in Japan.
Easy to choose together
We introduce products that you can compare together based on purpose and theme.
Free shipping on orders over ¥10,000
Eligible domestic orders are delivered with free shipping.
Consult via LINE
You can also consult us if you're unsure about product differences or how to choose.
See the products together
For those who want to choose with their partner after seeing the actual products.
It can be difficult to assess size, material, scent, and texture online alone. If you want to check the actual products before choosing, please visit fermata's pop-up store. You can hold the products in your hands and discuss options that suit your partner's preferences and what you both value.
FAQ
Frequently Asked Questions
Is it okay to give a surprise gift to my partner without consulting them?
Is it rude to give period products as a gift?
Is it okay to give menopause or urinary leakage products as a gift?
How should I choose sexual wellness products?
Can I see the products in person before purchasing?
Can I get advice if I don't know what to choose?
Choose together
Move from deciding for your partner to choosing together.
Rather than trying to understand everything, why not start by listening to your partner and trying to think together?