Femcare Gift for Your Partner | Self-Care You Choose Together
A gift for your partner
For those who careabout their partner’s well-being.
Turn your care into self-care that you can choose together.
From menstruation and fertility to postpartum, menopause, and sexual wellness. Rather than finding immediate answers, start by listening to each other. We introduce self-care options that can serve as a starting point for discussion and selection between two people.
Start with a conversation
To a gift that says,
"Is there anything we can do together?"
You may want to be supportive, but since it involves their body, you might not be sure if it's okay to choose on your own. You may also be unsure how to start the conversation. In such cases, why not begin by looking at things together, saying, "There are these options—what do you think?"
How to choose
Things to valuebefore you give.
Because these products involve the body and sexuality, respecting your partner's feelings and choices is more important than a surprise.
Listen
first
Do not try to solve the problem immediately. Ask, "Is there anything bothering you?" and listen to the extent that your partner is comfortable sharing.
Look at pages
together
Rather than deciding on a product alone, share potential options by asking, "There are these choices—what do you think?"
Check sizes and
preferences
For items like underwear, menstrual cups, scented products, and anything used directly on the body, it is safer to choose while checking your partner's preferences.
Don't force
use
Even after you give the gift, whether or when to use it is entirely your partner's choice. Please respect their pace.
Choose by purpose
Choose according towhere your partner is now.
Rather than guessing what they might need, please choose based on what your partner is interested in or themes you want to face together.
Make fertility
a shared journey
To share the time spent thinking about fertility. We introduce options for you to consider together, such as items to identify ovulation or self-checks to understand sperm health.
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Make period days
a little more comfortable
For items like absorbent underwear or menstrual cups, size and usage experience are important. We recommend choosing these together with your partner rather than as a surprise.
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Think about
your mutual comfort
When you want to reduce dryness, friction, or discomfort during intercourse. When you want to spend time together more comfortably and securely. We introduce products that can be chosen while discussing desires, making it a shared experience rather than one person's issue.
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For urinary incontinence &
pelvic floor care
For changes due to postpartum or age, or mild leakage when sneezing or exercising. Because this is a very personal issue, choose together while listening to what your partner is concerned about.
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Supporting you through
times of change
Sleep, mood, dryness, hot flashes—various changes can appear during menopause. Choose based on the actual changes and wishes your partner is feeling, rather than age.
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Gifting daily
self-care
We introduce care items easy to incorporate into daily life, such as cleansers, oils, and mists. Because there are preferences regarding scent and feel, it is safer to choose after checking with your partner.
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Before you give,start with these words.
You don't need to force out details or have the perfect answer ready. Simply conveying that you care and want to think about things together is enough.
Has anything physical been feeling like a burden lately?
Is there anything we can do together?
If there’s something you’re interested in, shall we look at it together?
You don't have to feel pressured to use it, you know.
Gift & bundle sets
Turn your careinto a gift you choose together.
Not just for birthdays or anniversaries, but when starting fertility journeys, talking about period or postpartum burdens, or whenever you feel you want to cherish your partner's body.
- Thematic sets for when you aren't sure where to start
- Combinations you can verify and choose with your partner
- Selectable by theme: Period, Pelvic Floor, Self-Care, etc.
- Verify content with your partner before purchase
Ask us
Even if you don't know
what to choose yet.
Through our fermata concierge (LINE), we also offer advice on choosing gifts across brands. Please let us know what your partner is interested in or the occasion for the gift.
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We select Femtech and Femcare products from around the world that are easy to incorporate into life in Japan.
Easy to choose together
We introduce products you can compare together, based on purposes and themes.
Free domestic shipping on orders over 12,000 yen (some regions excluded)
Domestic shipping within Japan is free for orders of 12,000 yen (tax included) or more. However, please note that a shipping surcharge of 700 yen for Hokkaido and 400 yen for Okinawa applies. Free shipping does not apply to international orders.
fermata concierge (LINE)
You can seek advice on product differences, how to choose, or if you are unsure about gift selection.
See the products together
For those who want to choosewith their partner in person.
Sometimes, it's hard to understand things like size, material, scent, or texture online. At fermata pop-up stores, you can handle the products and discuss options that align with your partner's wishes and what you both value.
FAQ
Frequently Asked Questions
Is it okay to give a surprise gift without consulting my partner?
Is it rude to give period products as a gift?
Is it okay to give products for menopause or urinary incontinence?
How should I choose sexual wellness products?
Can I see products in person before purchasing?
Can I get advice if I don't know what to choose?
Choose together
Instead of deciding for them,
make it a gift you choose together.
Instead of trying to understand everything, why not start by listening to each other and trying to think together?